GirlTalk 2011 - January Articles
GirlTalk 2011 - "Where Girls Can Speak Their Truth"
GirlTalk Articles
January 2010
Topic: Girls and Self-Esteem
By Dr. Lakita Long
 
 
Girls and Self- Esteem and two words that really seem to never separate.  Over the years, I have had the distinct priviledge of working with both girls and women in the areas of building self worth, and raising their self esteem.  In doing so, it has required a level of authenticity that sometimes is difficult to actual deal with. 
 
As you read this quick article on self esteem and how you can make a positive impact in the lives of girls, please understand that there are many different views about whether one can actually raise self-esteem or is it something that a person is born with? 
 
Your self-worth is not contingent upon what you have, but it does rely on how you value what you do have.  It is from this belief that we can come to the conclusion that girls can change the way they see their life, and the lives of others by how they view themselves.  Much is to be said about how anyone views themselves, but when we speak of girls between the ages of 8-18 years old, there are many different factors that play into their perception of self.
 
1. Peer Influence
2. Positive or Negative Adult Interaction
3. Self absorption about image
4. Improper boundaries
5.Physical, Sexual or Emotional Abuse
 
These are just a few factors that play on how girls perceive themselves, and what makes the ultimate decision in what gets played out in their minds. 
 
 
So if and when you are working with the girls in your life, or you happen to see them playing in the neighborhood (if they do this anymore), remember that self esteem is something that allows one to have a high regard of self, and can be learned, and usually comes because there are supportive adult figures in the lives of adolescents, who confirm the resiliency in that child.
 
Girls have much to think about and do, and the worst thing to live with is the possibility of never loving self, enough to make an informed decision about what is good or bad for your life.  Girls can have healthy doses of self-esteem when they are able to properly learn how to speak their truth, and change their mind.  When a young lady remains in silence, it causes her not to develop into the person that she was destined to be. 
 
Give the gift of "voice" to a young lady and watch her self-esteem blossom.  Your self-worth and knowledge of what you bring to this world, helps in the caring of how we continue to work together in the earth and how to better our communities and our selves.
 
 
 
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